Laura Jane Grace's move on transgender issue

The singer Laura Jane Grace published her latest album, Laura Jane Grace & the Devouring Mothers’ Bought to Rot in the last year. She told other people that she publishes this album for a lot of reasons, and the corn motivation is fear. She fears that she may never sing again. She made a decision to have facial feminization surgery next month. " I may die or undergo something incredible, and all these mat stop my career as a singer." As we all know that transition or a hard process for transgender people, it is full of risks and challenges. So, I can really understand her fear. Some of her co-workers were come out as transgender these years, such as her front woman and guitarist.

Many social media said "Due to her fear on her transition surgery, Grace was not interested in attending public activities." " That was not true" said Grace. Another lie about Grace is that she was to against her manager's by this way. In fact, when it comes to transgender and transitioning, misunderstandings and conjectures will never stop. Now, she backs to the real world and face the reality of being transgender. She only know transgender from TV shows and movies in the past, not she starts to join LGBT community to experience the ts dating life of transgender women, because it is time for her to get use to the daily life of transgender women. There us a public face and a private space for every transgender people, and the private space seem less safe and advance the what you thought, since transgender community still face with many difficulties. In order to provides all transgender people with a comfortable and private space, Grace pointed out to put up signs for transgender people in public bathroom. This is also a way for transgender people to avoid being misunderstood by other people in public bathroom.

For grace, it is a long and hard process to promote tranny date acceptance and reputation, it means she need to repeat her stories and opinions for several times, while she is not always willing to do that. She hopes that more and more people can accept transgender people by sharing her transition stories with them.

It is hard for transgender people to get the equal right. Some transgender people even fight for their equal rights, while confrontation never work, it is like a waste of time. In most occasions, people will start to accept other people through personally knowing. So, if a transgender person want to be accept by other people, the first step it to make other people know the who you are. It is a long process to know and get close to a stranger, and it is also hard to have imitate communication with a stranger. Never speed up the process. The more you know about each other, the easier you will get on with each other. Don'r always worry that you are not welcomed by other people around you, just be yourself and be honest to everyone you meet.